why are pop songs always 3 1/2 minutes long?

... primative mp3  ...

When recorded media was first introduced, it was a novelty. The Edison Cylider, being the first practical distribution method for recorded sound, never took off.

... the victrola [a popular 10 inch record player] ...

The 78 rpm record did take off, and thanks to its limitations, pop songs have been limited to about 3:30 in length. You couldn’t fit more than that onto a 78. Record executives, engineers, and producers all knew this. To sell popular music, a song had to fit on one side of a 78.

Musical forms and structures evolved quickly to fill the 3:30 time limit. The verse-chorus-verse formula that still exists today came about so that songs could come to a satisfying conclusion within the time limit of the record.

These limitations were ingrained upon songwriters and arrangers for 40 years.

As technology eliminated the 3:30 barrier for popular music with the LP record and more recently the CD, I often wonder why the time limit remains. I guess old habits are hard to break.

... the original cassette [enormous] ....

I leave you with a ghost from the past — the original cassette tape format that survived for eight years. I have never seen one of these or even met a person that has heard of this, so don’t expect people to care about your damn ipod 40 years from now.